What to do if a man stops appreciating you? Respect between a man and a woman Why does a husband not respect his wife

Is your husband indifferent to you? Doesn't notice even when you are literally in front of his nose? Sits on the Internet, plays computer games.

He eats, sleeps, throws out a couple of stock phrases - as if you weren’t there at all! Where did the passion of the relationship go when they couldn’t live without each other for a minute?! You are at a loss, you don’t know what to do... You can’t tell your friends, much less your parents.

If a husband does not respect and appreciate his wife, how to behave - the psychologist’s advice today will be in the form of an example - scenes from ordinary family life. Imagine yourself in the place of the heroine of this story...

“For the first time, Eve looked at her husband with the pitiless, merciless gaze of a woman in love. She didn't like what she saw.

In the evening Oleg came home empty-handed. He didn't bring her anything, knowing that she had a cold - not even chocolates! Eva felt disgusting, and he also began to show some inclinations...
- Oleg, I don’t feel well! Can not you see?

When exactly did a rift arise between her and her husband? This is a completely stranger... She was depressed. Disappointed. Her well-ordered life, which she was proud of, had been dealt a blow from which she could not recover. Eva’s romantic nature, yearning for love, rebelled against her husband’s attitude towards her, which she could now hardly endure. She noted with some kind of painful pleasure his every mistake, every negligence, every proof of his indifference and indifference. Her husband does not respect or appreciate her!

“How did I not pay attention to the way he eats, and then pushes the plate away from him, as if in a restaurant?

And he almost never helps me wash the dishes, taking it for granted that this is not his responsibility? How does he throw things into the bathroom for me to wash and iron? And he never expresses gratitude for my efforts... When was the last time he helped me clean the apartment? When was the last time he invited me to a cafe, to an exhibition, to the theater or just for a walk? When did he give me flowers just like that, not for my birthday or the Eighth of March? When…"
There were so many of these “hows” and “whens” that Eva’s head was spinning.

She came to the conclusion that even the intimate side of their marriage resembled the same dinners, laundry and other duties of Eve. At night she was like dinner or a clean shirt for Oleg. Another service from the “ideal wife”!

The result of all these discoveries was unexpected. Eve hated herself! For allowing herself to be treated this way for so long, and for being happy! God, what a fool she is! Idiot!

The fact that she started dating Denis Arkadyevich just happened naturally.

Eve couldn't be unloved anymore! She could no longer be used!

She wanted to be an object of love and worship, heartfelt affection, friendship, respect, finally! She wanted care and attention. But instead of them there was some kind of everyday routine, monotonous and boring. Eva felt deceived. An awakened woman spoke within her, who now perceived her previous family relationships as an insult. In the depths of her consciousness, a desire was brewing to get what she lacked, and at the same time to take revenge on Oleg.

Eva looked at herself in the mirror with different eyes, through the prism of the admiration that Denis Arkadyevich showed her, and never Oleg. She realized that she was truly beautiful. A sensuality awoke in her that frightened her.

The intimate life of a man and a woman opened up to her from a completely new, unknown side.

When I see you, Eva, I feel blood currents, like power threads connecting us with the currents of the Universe... - Denis Arkadyevich told her.
They met secretly, and this was also pleasantly exciting, giving everything a touch of adventure...

Women are the only creatures who know everything about heaven! - kissing Eva, the lover whispered. - They know the way to heaven! Will you show it to me, Eva?

Mr. Matveev had a rich collection of records and discs with recordings of the best symphony orchestras in the world. He loved twilight, exotic scents and music as attributes of love. He loved all the curves and bulges, all the finest lines of Eva’s body, and caressed her endlessly, whispering unusual words - and these words, along with the sounds of violins and oboes, with the vibrations of the fire in the fireplace and candles lit in the dark, with tender and passionate touches , with the light intoxication of expensive wine, with the yellow color of curtains and sofa upholstery, with the smells of unfamiliar perfumes, carried Eve into the trembling world of shadows and bizarre dreams, lay on the soul like the petals of heavenly flowers or twirled her in their witchcraft round dance...

Intimacy was born in Eve as a source of pleasures that she was unaware of.

Denis Arkadyevich showed her the sides of life from which the two of them could enjoy - subtle, elegant communication, fire burning in the darkness of rooms, painting, wine, flowers, music and love. He gave her gifts that did not at all resemble the hastily chosen little things or cheap little things that Oleg gave her. It wasn’t even a matter of price, but the state of mind with which they were selected, acquired, and the words Denis Arkadyevich found when he handed them to Eva.

Every day she became convinced that Oleg’s attitude towards her was nothing more than a ritual he had once accepted for himself, in which there was nothing from the heart, from a sincere desire to evoke a return fire in another being. Eva began to be offended by the limited set of phrases that Oleg used - he used it, not spoke to her, his usual pattern of behavior, devoid of unpredictability, the joy of discovery, unexpected pleasant surprises, unusual entertainment, intimate little things.

The same thing, the same thing, day after day - lunches, dinners, breakfasts, household chores, the same gestures, the same routine kisses, glances and lukewarm, tasteless hugs, the same friends , boring parties, hateful conversations about the same thing... Her husband takes her for granted, does not respect or appreciate her.

Eve had a forbidden, secret new life that beckoned her, like a butterfly beckoned by a lush flower, full of sweet nectar and the trembling of silk petals. She couldn’t imagine how she lived without this splendor, the entertainment of life, all these years, now like a long gray dream. She felt like a sleeping beauty who had finally been found and brought back to life with a kiss by a brave and handsome prince. She began to have dreams, memories, bizarre and sensual fantasies, strange, exciting desires, a taste for life, its colors, smells and secret impulses...”

How the love triangle was resolved, what Eve decided to do - find out in Natalia Solntseva’s novel “”.

If a husband does not respect and value his wife, how to behave - here are the psychologist’s tips that can be applied right now:

• Look at your relationship with your husband impartially, from the outside - imagine that your friend is complaining about a similar relationship. What advice do you have for her?
• Find the moment after which this attitude towards you began. Perhaps there is a clue there.
• What was your contribution to what happened? It takes two people to put together any situation.
• Is your husband dear to you, really?
• And do you respect yourself? Do you appreciate it?

Think...

Your Ali Baba.

What happens after the wedding? The wife automatically washes and cleans, the chosen one takes her work for granted, not considering it necessary to express his gratitude, and over time begins to show signs of disrespect. The spouse asks the question: “What should I do to change the situation, make me appreciate me and be afraid of losing me?”

Advice! The spouse must become someone who cannot be ignored, and the result will come on its own.

According to psychologists, it is impossible to demand respect from a person. It is impossible to force a husband to respect his wife. You can’t earn it, but awakening it is possible.

Let's consider the advice of a psychologist who tells you what to do to regain respect:

How to teach your husband to be jealous and afraid of losing?

Many representatives of the fairer sex will agree that jealousy, especially if it goes beyond the bounds and arises for no reason, is far from a pleasant feeling.

But its complete absence can arouse suspicion, because it may indicate indifference, loss of interest, or the emergence of a rival. But I want him to say that he got a real treasure.

Love is tantamount to jealousy, because one feeling gives rise to another. This is also a manifestation of selfishness, because jealousy is rather a fear of being left without a chosen one. If you overdo it, jealousy can destroy the strongest relationships.

Let's consider ways in which you can make your spouse jealous in moderation, for a little “spice” in a relationship:

1. It’s easy to evoke feelings of jealousy: all a wife needs to do is organize a romantic evening. Past memories can revive faded feelings.
2. First of all, you should start with yourself: tidy up your appearance. Looking at his unkempt wife, he begins to think that you will not get away from him.
3. When talking on the phone, move away, you can go outside. It’s a good idea to start a conversation in front of your husband if the interlocutor is male. This behavior will arouse his interest. The main thing is not to overdo it.
4. When left without your husband, do not rush to call him or answer calls immediately. Let him think that you have many interesting things to do. Better find yourself a hobby. The sparkle in your eyes while talking about your new hobby will earn you respect.
5. Come home with a bouquet of roses. It doesn’t matter where it comes from, you can buy it yourself, tell your husband what a visitor at work gave you.

The above tips will make you jealous. But don’t go too far, this behavior of your spouse can cause not a portion of jealousy, but mistrust and scandals.

Reasons for disrespect and its consequences

Let's try to figure out what causes disrespect. There are two main reasons.

1. Failure to live up to ideals. This is the main reason for disrespect. The image of a future wife in a man’s mind is formed long before her appearance.

   This applies to appearance, motherhood, professional activity, and the ability to create comfort in the home. The future husband, when choosing a companion, focuses only on the external image, and the discrepancy between the remaining points causes a cooling of feelings, which threatens the appearance of disrespect.

2. Unmet need. This happens when a man realizes that he cannot realize himself as a father, lover, protector, and is not able to provide for his family.

Important point! Representatives of the stronger sex are painfully aware of their inadequacy, therefore, trying to find an excuse, to defend themselves, they begin to look for flaws in the chosen one according to the principle: attack is a way of defense.

Accordingly, the wife will not accept an accusatory position, which is fraught with constant scandals. It happens that a man turns into a despot if his wife does not show her claws. This behavior of her husband is the reason for her complexes.

Sad statistics

2-3 years after marriage, the husband quickly loses interest and looks at other women.

What happens to stop him is:

• Laziness.
• Spiritual intimacy.

A wife's ability to look great is not a panacea. A conspiracy comes to the rescue.

If you suspect that a rival has appeared, you must act. In order to prevent your spouse from sharing a bed with her, the latter can be spoken to.

The plot is ideal so that the loved one stops looking at women, begins to appreciate and respect the chosen one, and quickly forgets the homewrecker.

Bed spell

Lie down on the marriage bed naked. Hands spread to the sides, hit the bed three times with the words:

“So that the legs of the servant of God (name) tremble, the lips dry out, and the hands reach out to the servant of God (name).”
After the ceremony, your spouse will stop thinking about anyone other than you. To ensure that the power of the ritual is not lost, it must be repeated once a year.

Important when carrying out a conspiracy

Many have heard that a conspiracy can cause harm. What could be the reasons? The conspiracy affects not only the husband, but also the entire family, its preservation.

Important! The first and main rule is that everything must remain a secret.

If you are planning to carry out a conspiracy or have already done so, you should not tell your friends or relatives. Otherwise, it can make the situation much worse.

We looked at the reasons why interest and respect may disappear, gave examples of struggle, how to make someone jealous and afraid of losing. Good luck to you!

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Women have a hard time experiencing such metamorphoses of a loved one and try to sort things out with their husbands. Quarrels often arise in the family, which can lead to divorce. But respect can be restored, and a marriage can be saved, if you turn to science in time - psychology, which will tell you what exactly needs to be corrected in difficult marital relationships.

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Why did the husband stop respecting his wife?

Psychologists say that changes in a spouse’s behavior are often provoked by the woman herself. Having obtained a guy as her legal husband, the fairer sex believes that her husband has proven his love for her by formalizing the relationship, and now she can relax. Coming home, a man sees in front of him not a well-groomed beauty, but a gloomy woman in a shapeless robe, who from the threshold begins to burden him with various problems and demands. Respect begins to fade day by day.

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Ungroomed woman

A sweet and feminine wife, pleasing to the eye with her appearance, pleasant interesting conversations with the family, comfort, delicious homemade breakfasts, lunches, dinners and hot sex for dessert - this is what most men expect from marriage. But many of them get exactly the opposite of their ideas. A woman will always have excuses: work, children, fatigue, etc. A man can tolerate it, however, over time his irritation only grows.



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Lack of common interests and refusal of sex

The opposite situation also happens, when the wife takes care of her appearance and cooks deliciously, but there is absolutely nothing to talk to her about. If a girl reads only women's magazines, watches TV series and talk shows, her husband is not interested in her as an interlocutor.

He tries to minimize his communication with his wife, because her chatter irritates the guy. The cause of male negativity can be poor-quality sex due to the low activity of the partner or the girl’s refusal to have intimate relationships.



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Male egoism

Another reason lies in the fact that the man is accustomed to considering his wife stupid and does not value her opinion. But the wife does not understand this, and he raises his voice, becomes harsh, rude, knowing full well that such behavior offends the woman and pushes her away. Sometimes the husband himself is not happy with his behavior, but he can’t help himself, because there is no more respect for his wife. In addition, he knows for sure that she will still forgive him, no matter how much he offends her, even after betrayal. This is a manifestation of male egoism, when all responsibility for the discord is shifted to the woman.

Financial dependence

Many wives consider it normal to live at the expense of their husbands. A common family structure: the husband earns money, and the wife spends it on arranging her home, children, clothes and taking care of her appearance. Husbands are most often not opposed to this. They may even experience pleasure in giving money to their wife and unquestioningly paying for her expenses, being condescending towards women’s weaknesses.

However, such complete financial dependence of a woman on her husband can play a cruel joke on her. Not all modern representatives of the stronger sex have the nobility and prudence to continue to treat their beloved with respect. The husband may begin to consider himself the sovereign master and master of his wife, who has the moral right to make any demands and claims against her. He, as the owner, can do whatever he wants, and she, as a subordinate creature, can do only what her husband and master allows. The husband’s reasoning is as follows: he supports her well, and she will not go anywhere, especially if there are children in the family.

Signs of a man's disrespect for his wife

Lack of respect for his wife manifests itself differently in different men. But there are common signs:

• frequent reproaches;
• a clear demonstration of boredom in the company of the spouse;
• stinginess;
• obscene language in the presence of the other half;
• the desire to spend time more often in the company of friends than with his wife;
• disrespect, contempt for the spouse’s values;
• ignoring the wife's interests;
• humiliation;
• constant control or complete indifference to the life of the spouse;
• comparing her with other women and showing demonstrative interest in them;
• betrayal;
• regrets about marriage, etc.

Making a husband respect his wife is not so easy. The psychology of men is such that they do not like pressure, especially from a woman whom they do not respect. If a man does not see his wife as an equal partner and is accustomed to treating her with contempt, the woman will have to work hard and change a lot both in her worldview and in her everyday life.

Advice from psychologists for women who want to regain a man’s respect:

• A woman needs to understand that she is already worthy of respect from her husband if she fulfills the duties of a mother and wife well. A lady who is accustomed to humiliation and insults and is ready to meekly put up with the existing state of affairs is unlikely to be able to force her husband to respect herself.
• It is necessary, if possible, to do something else besides family matters. If not professional activity, then some kind of hobby. It doesn't have to be knitting or sewing. Dancing in a club, attending a foreign language school, a passion for photography, etc. would be suitable. The husband should see that his wife’s interests are not directed only at him, the one and only. The guy will understand that his woman has her own inner world and interests outside the family.
• It is worth finding out what your husband is interested in and trying to share his hobbies. If he is a passionate fan of a football club, then he needs to follow the success of this team and be aware of what is happening in the sports world. The spouse will definitely appreciate it.
• You need to take care of your appearance. A woman should be well-groomed, fit and tastefully dressed, regardless of age.

If the previous points are fulfilled, then the wife can safely begin a serious conversation with her husband. Without hysterical notes and strain. You need to try to explain to the man what exactly offends her. If he is not a pathological tyrant and is interested in

Divorces are quite common these days. Moreover, a few years ago the statistics were completely disappointing: approximately 50% of couples separated. Many different reasons are to blame for this state of affairs, including a lack of respect between people. We will talk about this in this article. We are most interested in the question of how to make a husband respect his wife. The answer is below.

What does it mean to respect?

Respect presupposes that a person’s opinion is listened to, he is valued in all the diversity of existence: he is attentive to desires, needs, tastes and needs.

It must be said right away that you cannot ask the question: “How to make a husband respect his wife?” This is an incorrect, fundamentally incorrect formulation. Respect can only be earned, it cannot be obtained by force.

Why does the problem of disrespect arise?

In general, when people have already reached the registry office, it is a little late to think and analyze the relationship. The fact is that they have already taken shape, which means that a man and a woman at least built them. The white dress and the cries of “bitter” inevitably, like a hangover after a party, are followed by the usual marital routine.

80% of the time of all married couples passes in her space. People get tired at work, become inattentive to each other, and it seems that they stop respecting each other. Spouses perceive each other instrumentally: the husband's wife as a “bad or good earning machine,” and the husband as a “food processor.” Indeed, it’s time to ask yourself the question: “How to make a husband respect his wife?” We analyze in detail possible solutions to this, needless to say, difficult task.

Women's illusion number one: “He will change”

Now lovely ladies will protest and say that people change, etc., that their friends had real cases (friends will always have evidence of anything).

All this concerns us, because it is very important to understand when a husband began to treat a woman without due respect. If this was still during the candy-bouquet period, then there is nothing left to do but congratulate the woman, because her husband, in principle, never respected her. This means that now asking how to force a husband to respect his wife is pointless, because it was necessary to look much earlier at whom she chooses as her life partner.

By the way, this is why the divorce rate is so high. People begin to see the light, and do not want to prolong their suffering, and break up. The psychologist here can only advise one thing (if he is honest): run without looking back. It will only get worse: assault and other “joys” of an average marriage.

If the alienation between people came along with the marital routine. What to do?

But sometimes it happens that people deteriorate over the course of their lives and become cold and indifferent. And of course, a woman in despair asks herself: “How to make a husband respect and appreciate his wife?!”

First of all, there is no need to panic.

Secondly, you should analyze the current situation and answer two questions:

1. What happened?
2. What happened?

Simply put, you need to understand why it used to be so good, but now it has become so bad. It is necessary to compare the situations before and after marriage, identify the causes and begin to eliminate them.

For example, a girl asks herself the question: “How to make a husband love and respect his wife?” During the simple operation that we described just above, the wife understands: she is not sinless.

The woman began to have a consumerist attitude towards her husband, as A. B. Pugacheva sang: “Instead of affection, you hear barking. Just give her the money." If this is the case, then the woman needs to be more attentive to her husband and try to somehow correct the situation. The problem is that such women do not see any flaw in themselves. To summarize, we can say this: you need to inspect your everyday life and identify weak points in it, then try to eliminate them to the best of your ability.

Talk can solve almost any problem

In addition to the previous point: a woman should not analyze and eliminate the problems of living together alone. I would not like to scare anyone, but marriage is a common matter. And if problems arise, they need to be solved together.

In this case, conversation is an indispensable tool. Simply put, it is worth discussing the current state of affairs with those who are directly interested in it. Unfortunately, most people are not used to talking to each other about their problems. They think this is a sign of decline and loss of love. But that's not true. Love is work. In automatic mode, feelings will not last long and will soon disappear.

To summarize this section, we can say the following. Of course, a soul specialist can try to solve the problem under the general title “How to make a husband respect his wife.” A psychologist's advice can be very varied, depending on the situation, but they all boil down, in essence, to one thing: people should talk to each other and discuss their problems.

By the way, for many Russian and foreign couples, a substantive conversation about the crisis of family relationships is a serious undertaking, because they are even willing to pay a psychologist to conduct family counseling with them. And only at a session, in the presence of a third person, can people express certain complaints to each other.

When everything is fine, but there is still no warmth

If you have tried all the previous methods in good faith, but the situation has changed little, then there is nothing particularly consoling here. Perhaps the love has passed, and there is hardly anything that can be done about it. Before that, the article turned out to be somewhat abstract.

It may seem a little strange to some that, answering the question of how to make a husband respect his wife, psychology can only offer conversations and conversations as a solution. But, unfortunately, this is so. We are not looking for easy ways here and do not seek to deceive the reader; our task is to honestly answer the request.

And, nevertheless, we will still try to give some specific recommendations.

A husband's respect for his wife disappears in several main cases:

1. When a wife “goes down”, i.e. stops taking care of himself and gets outrageously fat. In short, a lot of things can happen, but the result is the same: she ceases to be attractive to her husband. The consequences are sad: sexual interest disappears, then respect, then love. What should I do? Take care of yourself, play sports and win back your husband’s affection.
2. The wife does not work, but at the same time she gives various valuable instructions on how the husband should work, how to live, and so on. It is more difficult here than with physical defects, since this is a problem of the psychological type of a woman. Such ladies consider themselves perfect and take good and even servile attitude for granted. There is only one solution: get a job and show your husband that the woman is an independent person. We guarantee: if this is the problem, respect will return.
3. "Sawing." The third specific reason for loss of respect is constant complaints, sometimes arising out of nowhere. We will not go into details here; the reader will probably understand what we are talking about. This group of reasons is the most complex. The phenomenon of “sawing” stems from a woman’s general dissatisfaction with life. How to deal with this? It's hard to say. There are two ways: either talk a lot with your husband, or often consult a specialist. In this case, there is no need to take your husband to see a psychologist, because these are the woman’s personal problems.

Can fortune tellers help solve the problem?

You need to understand a simple thing: fortune tellers are the same as psychologists, only they also have a selfish aspect. Their main task is to convince the client that he is deeply unhappy, and only a psychic has the keys to a better life.

When answering the question of how to force a husband to respect his wife, a conspiracy should not be considered as a possible solution. Because turning to fortune tellers perpetuates the vicious practice according to which a person is always looking for those to blame, although in search of reasons he should rather look into himself or analyze general relationship problems. Only very lazy and extremely uneducated people can believe that psychics and fortune tellers can make their lives better with the wave of a magic wand.

We hope our reader will have enough education and intelligence to take advantage of what the science of psychology offers, namely, to explore their relationships, analyze the situation and constantly discuss emerging problems with their life partner. Believe me, you simply cannot find a better solution.

In our time, you won’t meet or see anything, but family values ​​have not changed since biblical times: love and respect your wife. Don't betray her and don't raise your hand against her.

Does everyone follow these rules, why do quarrels arise so often in the field of disrespect for a woman’s work and care, and the husband’s attitude becomes cold and calculating. How to avoid this and counter it?

In fact, no one needs to be forced to do anything, if you are husband and wife and have created a unit of society, then you need to observe the dinner given to everyone at the time of marriage. Therefore, it is important to love your soulmate and appreciate her for all the efforts she brings into the house.

If it happens that the husband has ceased to appreciate and respect the woman, his beloved half, then no tricks will help. You need to act harmoniously and calmly.

Talk with your chosen one, clarify the reason for the misunderstanding, do not raise your voice during the conversation and do not throw hysterics as a demonstration of disrespect for yourself. First, love yourself, find free time to be not a slave, but a woman, making firm decisions.

You shouldn’t take on all the housework, both female and male, in every task you can approach your husband and ask for help, so that he feels strong and caring, and such help won’t hurt you either.

If your husband compliments you, then do not rush to say: “Look, look at the gold you got!”, but simply hug him and thank him for the nice words. From time to time, you need to pamper men with compliments, even if they deny the fact that they do not need a pleasant word.

Attention: you should not allow your husband to humiliate himself, especially in the presence of other people.
The reason for this may be the chosen one herself, if she allows her to insult her other half and make comments about the work done in an aggressive manner. No man will tolerate such disrespect, and therefore you need to love and value your other half, as well as yourself.

1. The status of the one and only must always be maintained.If a man ceases to realize what value is in his hands, then what kind of respect can we talk about?
2. Spouses should spend more time together.Of course, if the husband lies on the sofa and reads the newspaper, and the wife sits and watches TV, then this is called side by side, but a family dinner with a conversation about the past day is together.
3. There is no need to be shy about talking about your feelings.Men tend to express their emotions in action, and therefore a woman should understand that such actions are confirmation of her husband’s respect for her.
4. A woman is the weaker sex and there is no need to forget nails in the closet or change light bulbs.Don’t carry heavy bags from the market, ask for help, who will take care of you if not you yourself. Be a little more cunning and affectionate, don’t spoil your husband, make him appreciate and respect the woman!
5. There is no need to escalate a petty quarrel into a serious conflict and divorce.Maybe your husband came home from work tired, and therefore didn’t see your new hairstyle or eyebrows. These are banal examples, but sometimes such little things drive a woman crazy and provoke family conflicts.
6. If everything was great yesterday, but today it’s bad, we need to look together for the reason for this phenomenon.You can’t let things go by chance and you can’t get rid of the problem yourself either. Maybe a woman has begun to have a consumerist attitude towards her husband, she is only interested in money, then what kind of self-respect can we talk about?
7. Always look after yourself, be on top, then the man will never look the other way and dare not offend you. Then sexual relations will be in order, and the husband’s disposition will be at the proper level.
8. No fortune tellers or love spells can restore the relationship and make the husband respect his wife.Such a decision cannot be considered as salvation, because fortune tellers are also people with mercantile interests, information for you, and money for me.
9. To make your husband respect you, educate yourself.If you don’t have a job, find one, sign up for a massage course or learn a foreign language, get a driver’s license, show your spouse that you are a strong and confident woman, then he is unlikely to offend you!
10. Try not to waste money.Manage your household affairs competently, keep your home and body in order, prepare meals, don’t be lazy, invent, fantasize, so that your husband flies home like on wings, and doesn’t stay late at work talking with his secretary.

Take care of the family nest, love and respect all family members, do not slander your family and friends, especially from your husband, be tactful and polite when communicating with his mother.

Show adequacy in communication, do not raise your voice at your husband, do not nag him, always compliment him and appreciate his work in your family. This is the only way to achieve reciprocity and joy in a relationship!